When someone does something
that really really bugs you
and you find yourself getting upset
about this something,
and then as
your relentless thoughts
about this something
persist night and day
and plain driving you nuts(!),
this usually inadvertently indicates
there is something within yourself
the Universe is attempting to
get your attention about
that you have not acknowledged
in order for
growth and change to occur
for your Highest Good.
*What irks you in another is mirroring something similar in you.*
Recently I became very upset by what someone close to me was doing. A pattern this person displays that I’ve seen for more years I’d like to admit, brought me to the breaking point. For days I was miserable. Two nights ago, I awoke and simply knew right there and then, the very actions that this person was exemplifying mirrored mine regarding an aspect of my life. When I saw this truth, immediately I understood why my thoughts were borderline obsessive.
This “habit” I kept seeing in the “other” person that drove me bonkers, was all about me. For you see, I did the exact same thing! Admit that however? Heck no! Not me! “Deny all you want, Ame, but yeah you”, says the Universe.
I have every intention to begin changing this aspect in me. The actions that were driving me crazy turned out to be a Blessing in disguise. Since my “revelation”, the relentless thoughts ceased immediately. Why? I consciously chose to turn to the Universe showing me how to change that which I desire to change in me. Mission accomplished. Message received.
We can only change ourselves. Yes?
Undoing the patterns that I inherited from my childhood, is one of the most challenging things I am actively doing in my life. There are times I truly want to step off this path and throw the towel in. It is just that difficult. But, with hindsight as my Guide, I know that once I begin changing these negative behaviors into something positive, I will feel like I’ve conquered the impossible. For you see, I will be transmuting hell to Heaven.
*Change began yesterday. Now to reinforce this new pattern.*
Photography/ “Mirrors” /Feb. 2020©AmyRose Photography
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