Seeing this picture, you probably asked, what in the world? This is not the usual for Amy. LOL Now just hold on because a beautiful post is about to unfold right before your eyes all centered around a cable connector. That is what this picture is for those of you who don’t frequent a gym. This connector allows you to connect pieces of equipment to it to use the cable, according to which exercise you are about to do.
That day I planned on using a rope inverted “V” to do kneeling pulldown abdominal crunches. If you don’t know what a crunch is, I know you don’t work out let’s just suffice to say.
I had to wait a good 5-minutes for any of the stations to open up. In the workout world, if you are serious, the goal is to wait no longer then 1-minute in between sets and repetitions within each set. Seeing this was my last exercise and I really wanted to do those tummy burners, I waited. Besides, the scenery was nice (wink). I held in my one hand the rope inverted “V”, standing quietly at a respectable distance.
I was observing those woking out on the cable as any red-blooded woman would do. As an artist I find the human form beautiful, especially fit with muscles. It gave me great pleasure to watch others who knew what they were doing. In fact, the gentleman who I originally got the inverted “V” from took one look at me and said, “Yep, you know what you are doing,” when I said to him I couldn’t use this station he was using for what I had in mind.
Nice to have someone say I know what I am doing. I’d say some are noticing my intensity and the way I work out. I like it!! Thank you!
So, finally I saw my opportunity when a young man finished his sets. Quickly so that no one else would jump in rudely (that has happened before!) I walked over to the vacated station only to find out the wrong cable connector was on. I couldn’t fit my piece of equipment on the cable connector.
I said out loud, “Oh, sh*t! This doesn’t fit!” I began to assess the other stations around me, checking the ground, everywhere and anywhere to see if I could find the right connector. One of the young men who I had been admiring, stopped what he was doing. He came over to me when he saw my predicament.
He said, “No worries. I’ll find you the right connector. I used to work here and I thought they got rid of all these other connectors. I saw how long you waited to get on here.” I looked at him with such gratitude and said in return, “Bless you!” He found me a connector, put it on for me, (wonders never cease!) to which I quickly connected my inverted “V” to so I could do those tummy burners. Again I thanked him as he continued where he left off with his bicep curls repetitions.
That little act of kindness, and the fact how he treated me like a woman who he was admiring, (blush) made my day, that day and the next and the one after that. One act of kindness goes a long way, dear friends. And to know that there still exists in this world a gentleman who knows how to treat a woman, well! My Faith has gone up a notch or two for the outcome of this world!!
Photography/ “The Cable Connector”/ March 2018©AmyRose
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Hi Amy,
very deep post. You always find a wonderful picture to explain post on the best possible way.
I like a gym and I like to train, and that chain remind me always on gym.It is very strange how we notice small signs of kindness.It seems that we live in a rough era.
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Hi, Ben! I’ve been in a gym since my 20’s so yes I do know what I’m doing. I go through stages when I stop going to the gym and lately have gone back to it. (OUCH!) I do like watching others, picking up tips on how to tweak something or change something. I’m very serious in my workouts and it seems peeps are noticing. I AM DOING THIS!!! And thank you for your kind compliment on my post!! Much Love to you this day! 🌹
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Lol! The gyms great for a good view 😆 & yes, it’s even better when there’s some kindness that comes with that view… X!
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LOL Truthfully I usually am so focused on my workout I barely am aware of who is working out around me. It was nice to be standing there, something I normally do not do. I was so Blessed by this young man’s kindness towards me. May you have a great day today, Baffledmum! 🌹
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Thank God for random acts of kindness, Amy. Thanks for inspiring me, too. I need to get back to the gym and do some tummy toners as well. 🙂
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Absolutely, Rob! Random acts of kindness go so far! I have seen a huge turnabout in this gym just from last year. Last year all I saw were these young chickies walking around in these skimpy outfits, most of the men hitting on them, and everybody more involved in their phones then in working out. Lately however, I am seeing serious working out and truly no hit a upons are happening, at least not when I go. I think things are turning around and we are getting back to decent respect between people. Much Love to you today and good luck with those tummy burners! 💕🌸💕
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That’s very sweet, there are still very fine gentlemen in the world, young and old. I’m sure he recognized a beautiful lady when he saw one too. ❤
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Aw, Holly. You’re making me blush again. I don’t go around looking for others to notice how I look. I just am who I am and do what I do. Yet when something like this happens, I’m so touched. You know the stigma in this country regarding age. I’ve just proven today it’s hogwash! Have a great day today and much Love to you!! 😘🌹💖
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Great story – and with a view!! Nice to hear about acts of kindness always! I am glad you were the recipient too! Much love to you! Donna
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This young man gave me at first a start then such gratitude came. The difference I am observing in this same gym from last year is huge. The crowd has gone from “a pick up joint” and one more focused on phones, to the present day where people are really working out, focused and really into it. YES! I even saw a man bring out chalk to bench press with. I mean WOW! I haven’t seen this in years! I really believe I am seeing a turnaround for the better of humankind, Donna. I am thrilled!!! 🤗👏🏼🤗
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This is great news Amy! Sounds like you have had a huge lifting of the heart too, and what you are seeing is all part of your new world!! Very cool!
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It’s like …. pinch me! This world I am now walking in is ablaze with Love and Kindness and Pure Joy! I’ve walked for years giving giving giving Love yet really not seeing reciprocation in the “real world”. I’ve seen it here, yes! But in the world? I’m bedazzled! Just bedazzled!!! 🤗
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I have gone to gyms to do work outs. I always dropped out due to anxiety. If I had someone help me like you did, I might have been inspired to continue lol! I work out off and on a few months st a time, but I do it from my home. I dont have the equipment I’d like to have but it is enough. Such a cute story you shared today. I have been working out steady since Jan 1st. I hope I stick with it this time. It feels so good to work out, makes me wonder why I stopped.
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Frazzled, I’ve been in a gym since my 20’s. I learned/taught myself. I bought books and I observed closely what others were doing around me. As time went on and I gained friends because I attended so often they showed me new ways to work certain body parts. When I returned to the gym recently after being away for a while, I felt intimidated because of how out of shape I was compared to my norm, and all these young things walking around in very revealing gym clothes. I refused to allow anyone or anything to deter me. What I described here today in my post was a random act of kindness. I knew what to look for yet this man insisted on doing it for me. I encourage you keep working out. Stick with it! You will not regret it!! Much Love! 💖💖💖
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I shall try my very best. Thank you for your inspiration.
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You are SO very welcome! Together we are strong! 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
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PS I’ve tried getting over to your blog and having no luck. I’ve been having trouble off and on for a week. WP must be doing something. I’ll try later. 🌼
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Strange. I have lost 16 lbs since jan. 1st. I am sticking to my healthy eating lifestyle. I am now down to 134 from 150. My goal originally was 120 but I’m not sure if I will go that low.
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Frazzled, gauge your weight by how you feel. I know where my danger weight lies at. You may not wish to go as low as 120. Just take this as it unfolds. You are doing so good!! Remember, you are a unique person whose optimum weight is where you feel most healthy at. High five!! 🤗
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Glad you made the right connection.
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LOL@Scott! Good play on words there!! Too funny!! 😂😂
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Great story Amy! 🙂 Even small acts of kindness do go a long way. 🙂 ❤ Good luck with the snow storms! Love and blessings for you. ❤ ❤ ❤
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Grrrrrr …. Sarah, you would have to mention the s word. I’m stunned how winter is just giving us all a run for our money! Small acts of kindness are not small in my book …. they are the foundation of a world founded in LOVE. (((HUGS))) 😘
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Good for you Amy!!! 🙂
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Thank you, Jodi!!! 😁
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I can’t comment on the gym experience since I’m such a slug. But I do want to comment on the photo, which is awesome, as usual. Sometimes it’s good to get away from the norm. I’m thinking of using my new camera for an entire series of photos of “everyday things” (like the shower photo I did previously – it gets a lot of views on Flickr. Yay!). It could be fun finding ordinary objects and making them exciting through the right angles and lighting, don’t you think?
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CM, I think that is a really good idea! Do it! You will see the world in a different way! The post before this one was a shot I didn’t even consciously try for …. I got involved in something, looked over and there on my Samsung Camera’s LCD was this image that made my jaw drop. Go find those ordinary objects and create magic from them!!! YES!!! I applaud you!!! 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
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What a nice gesture by the young man. Sounds like the gym is working well for you, Amy.
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I agree about this young man, Dan. And yes the gym as it always has, is certainly agreeing with me. My sore muscles can attest to that!!! LOL Since I worked legs yesterday there is no reason for me to not go on my next gym day to do chest, shoulders, biceps, and of course, abs again. Hope you are having a great day today!! Stay warm. Another storm I hear is about to blast us again! (scream!) 🌸🌷🌸
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I’m getting ready to fire up the snow blower right now.
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Hubby put gasoline in ours today. Yep, here we go again! 😒
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There is inspirations of different flavors in your post 🙂
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I agree. I like your “different flavors”. You just put a different “spin” on my story. Much Love to you this day, Pragalbha!!! 💖💖💖
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🙂 🙂 Much Love dear friend.
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LOL !!! When I first saw the picture I immediately thought about the windshield wiper fiasco and thought maybe we were in for another one of those hilarious tales…This one was warm though and it always feels so good when someone takes the time to offer help in some way. Nice 🙂 Glad he did that for you. Have a happy snow day AR….
Hugs…VK ❤
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I’m laughing as I write this!! Ya never know what will come forth from me. Heck I don’t even know! LOL And yes, those acts of random kindness touch so deeply and are oft not forgotten. This is not the only act of kindness I’ve seen lately, VK, which is beginning to get my attention. Could it be that the Greater Consciousness of mankind is changing for the better???? I’ve dreamed for so long of living in a world where LOVE is the state that all live from. And as for snow …. the last I heard beginning tonight we are in for 6-18 inches of the white stuff. Good that I got me outside today to take the pics that you will soon see here. Have a great day and stay warm!! (((HUGS))) 💖
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Whoa Amy, all for a cable connector! I wonder what would happen in the mechanics workshop…lol. 😀 😀
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Just thinking about it gets me laughing so hard my stomach cramps. 😂😂😂
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This young man was very thoughtful. It doesn’t need a lot to make this world a better place. Just walking through the day with open eyes and (most of all) an open heart gives you endless possibilities to show others that they are important! Thank you for sharing this story. There is so much love in this world. It is the little things that weave the net between us. 💖
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Erika, another kindness story coming tomorrow (hopefully). I am stunned and I mean stunned by the kindness I am observing and being a recipient of!!! A New World is being born right now!! I feel it!! Just wow! 💞🦋💞
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… the better it gets the better it gets… isn’t that a wonderful law?😊
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YES! 😘
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beautiful. one small, quick, act of kindness….. and LOOK, where it has gone! that man – has NO idea how he has inspired others around the world to also, make a mark today for kindness…all Because He DID.
now….. same could be said for each of us, in turn and how we could inspire someone around the world we do not know and will never know.
that is a wow Amy. Thank YOU. so much. ❤
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Debi, you put tears in my eyes. Your words resounded the world round, for they just shout their message so strong! I honestly was in such a haze, one that I call when I work out, focused and zeroed on nothing but what I do, I probably couldn’t even identify this young man again if I saw him to tell him what HE did. WOW! He so inspired me and touched me so deeply. My face probably showed my intense surprise for what he did and I know my heartfelt and loud thank you certainly did! YOU are so welcome for this post! It is my pleasure and it is an honor to show the world via my blog what real LOVE looks like in real life. Bless you, Debi, from the bottom of my Heart! YOU are awesome!!! (((HUGS)))! 💞
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my pleasure, Amy.cheers, debi
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Wow! I am so impressed with your heath and wellness routines at the gym, Amy!! And the cherry on the top was the kindness of this young man. Loved it ❤
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Helen, I’ve been so focused on getting back into shape and staying that way. As you know, life was so tough for me and in all the Hospice Care I gave to Rocky on top of everything else, I had nothing left over. Believe it or not, I have another kindness story coming tomorrow, one that is even more unbelievable then this one you read. You sound like you are in a good space! Good for you! Both have us have chosen LIFE!!! (((HUGS))) Amy 💞
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