Words ‘Tween Hubby And Me (10 IMAGES)

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  1. I feel very sure, that your positive attitude keep your family going strong, dear Amy 🙂

    Beautiful photos, which fit into your good post.

    Humor is necessary to survive, especially when others are not so positive in mind.
    Much love to you ❤

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    1. Irene, if it were not for my sense of humor I would have long ago sunk into despair. Truth be told, at the time these things happen, it really isn’t funny. Later on I think about what transpired and see how silly it really is, sad yes to a point, and I just laugh and Let It Go. In all seriousness, what you believe and what you think actually manifest in your life. I am so determined that these delusions of my husband’s will not take precedence in his life! Now I can only do as much as I can do and the rest is up to him. I just thank goodness that when he doesn’t focus on something he goes on to the next. And so it continues… May you have a glorious day this day! 💖💥💖

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    1. I know, Holly! Is that not the truth! LOL THANK goodness for my sense of humor for real! Oh don’t get me wrong, there have been times I have been so frustrated and just would love to shout stop stop stop this insanity! And Insanity it is! I will not allow that to come into my home and so I just go about be-bopping and continuing with the attitude that I do have. May you have a wonderful day this day, dear friend! 💖💥💖

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  2. Great photos! They really highlight this post. It’s a great message for me. You and hubby sound like you’ve been together a long time! You both have big hearts and show you really care. Bless you both! Much love, Donna

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    1. Donna, we’ve been together for 34 years and counting. Yes we both have big hearts, and that is truly evident once hubby lets go of his fear. He would really if I would let him, suffocate all of us here in this home because he does not want any of us to be harmed by the world. He is learning to trust in a Higher Source and to let go his fears that something bad will happen. Again, all this nonsense points to Vietnam. In the years I have been with him I have seen a lot of progress in him. So I continue with what I do as I sing my own song, refusing to be pulled into something that he would love for me to be involved in, which is not even true. May you have a glorious day this day! 💖💥💖

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  3. These are times of ‘testing’ on us all AR…We each deal with it in our own way which is as it should be, at the same time, we must be open to change and moving forward. Hubby must still be in the old paradigm. Tell him he best shape up if he wishes to catch up to where you’re going. We can’t stay stagnant forever. Change is inevitable and necessary!! Stay strong….Hugs to Jersey who looks like she wants in!!!! Come on and open that door 🙂 Hugs…VK ❤

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    1. Yes, hubby is most certainly in the old paradigm, VK. This man does not understand what is at stake for if I blurted out the truth of the matter he will think I am absolutely crazy. So for years I have been working behind the scenes without letting on what’s really going on, praying as I do that he will let go the fear that is choking him. Bottom line dear friend, it’s up to him to choose the new versus the old. I did not portray in this post how extremely difficult it is to be living in one house with two Opposite Worlds in it. Yet I see this man’s Heart and my guidance continually points to me to keep up the work that I am doing. I know in my Heart there will come a day when the two world will separate. As long as I am committed and fully assured that I am doing my best, I take one moment as it comes. I know you of anyone understands what I just said. Much Love to you today! 💖💕💖

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      1. Oh AR I raised a son with a strong scientific mind…He is now about to get his Ph.d so he knows what he’s talking about, but living with a scientific mind that needs proof to believe anything about killed me and my spiritual mindset…We we like night and day…Yes, I understand what you are facing. Have patience if possible 🙂 As long as you don’t short change your own life all will be well….All will be as it is meant to be…..Hugs and love…VK ❤

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      2. What you just said is what keeps me going. Some days this man truly acts within the vibration of Love. Then fears snatches him and he falls. My thinking is all is good and all will be well. I go about doing my own thing and keep living in LOVE. That is all I can do. Big hugs to you! 💖💖💖

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    2. And as for Jersey, she doesn’t want to come into the house. She was looking in trying to get me to understand that she was not feeling well. I did not catch that she had a bladder infection until the next day when I cleaned out her kitty litter and saw what I did. That’s when I made the connection that she was not feeling well at all. Oh she is wild through and through and when Spring is here she will be out and about. She’s smart enough to know that if she comes in she will not go out and that’s not what she wants. As in all cases here I do what these babies want.

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    1. Thank you about these photographs! Bless you, dear friend! And yes it never ceases to amaze me how others around me can relate to what my life is comprised of. It all matters in which attitude you choose to adapt one faces with challenges. I’m told again and again how positive I am rather than having my chin on my shoes. Sorry I will not go there! Don’t get me wrong there are times that come forth in my life where sadness is very real and I have every right to grieve for the sadness that is held in my Heart. Other than that no. I hope you are having a very good day this day. Much love to you, Pragalbha. 💖💕💖

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      1. Much Love Amy. It is a beautiful day. True, sadness is real at times, yet there is this space of awareness around it. I dive deep into the emotion I feel so I get done with it and return to the space that holds it. I refuse to stay down 🙂 With each of your posts and comment you are showing me a mirror, and I am content with what I am seeing.

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    1. I could actually picture you with one of these pieces of wood and actually either making something out of it or sculpturing with it. They absolutely fascinated me and I really did look at them for a long time. And as you say everything in a forest does serve a purpose. As this wood decays it feeds the forest with life. Truly amazing! Hope you are having a great day today, Dan. 💖

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  4. The next time you feel he is talking from a fear, I want you to go up to him and with sincerity say ‘I love you’ and give him a 30 second hug (and I mean a 30 second hug). It can be confronting, even for you both because we get into ‘ways of being’ that hinder us from displaying our feelings. Just be careful as it can be a tipping point and he, and you, may begin to cry. Allow it, and anything that needs to come from it as it is a cleansing, a deep truth that is holding and waiting its time, just as you did with your mom. His holding patterns are very deep because of Vietnam, but an angel a day may be all that he needs to ‘let go’ of his past and their fears, and begin to be in the now ❤ 😀
    Oh, and I love the image of the ice and snow around those two leaves…look at their energy keeping the ice at bay 😀 ❤

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    1. That is tricky at best, Mark. I’ve actually attempted to do this but he just pushes me away and then becomes paranoid on top of the fear that I’m up to something. This “fear factor” is so strong in him that nothing, and I mean nothing, gets through to him until he again begins to set right. Now, I would again attempt to do the hug and hang on in the presence a counselor and even then I honestly don’t think it would sink in that I Love him… at that moment. He “knows” I do and I know he Loves me. When he is fully back in his “right mind” he feels terrible how he acted. I’ve prayed. I’ve Loved this man for 34 years. I’ve done tough love. No-thing works. I’ve finally accepted that God and God alone will and I’m saying will, get this man’s attention. It has already begun last week as I told you when I knew hubby was crying on account of what he heard someone else say that I’ve been saying for years. And then when I broke on account of my Mom, I saw a huge leap in growth in him. I’m too close. Can you understand that? His wakeup has to come from a source other then me. I’m laying the ground work, for sure, that I am confident in. But for lasting change to happen it won’t be directly on account of me. Even his Service related counselor has admitted to me hubby just gets his back up against the wall when anyone attempts to crack him open. His counselor will not give up on him either and of late, is very pleased with his progress. When deeply engrained patterns exist, it is “a-ha” and the lightbulb goes off, and then it seems 10 steps backward as fear begins to go off. I’ve learned how to laugh. I’ve learned for the most part not to take things personally although it sure feels personal at times. I’ve understood for a long time that what hubby was exposed to as an 18 year old kid, a grown man, much less a child, would not have handled without loosing his mind. Slow and steady with this man, Mark. I did the same thing with my Mom. When her Heart finally was seen it was on account of a lot of effort from me. And what JOY!
      And that pic of the ice …. oh yes I LOVE that one too!!! (((HUGS))) and a huge thank you for your genuine Love and concern. Bless you!! 💖💖💖

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      1. I have no doubt it would be tricky Amy. And you have been a pillar and ‘mate’ for him for a very long time, which is why you have seen his cracks opening over time and the counselor is pleased with his latest progress.
        I think why I have said this is because it is getting close, there has been a shift within him. And you have also helped in building his journey, especially after what you have experienced with your mom, that very love you have created within yourself is asking him to reach out…in his way. Yes, he must make all his decisions, but your constant support is built on that love he is seeking within himself.
        You’ll know when it is time, your heart now understands it ❤

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      2. Dearest Mark, you give me very wise words, words that I have instantly recognized as truth. Yes the time draws near and I know exactly when I will be able to step forth to offer my Bountiful hug. You have sensed this and you have confirmed something deep within side of me that this too shall pass. Bless you from the bottom of my Heart for walking along with me as I reveal truthfully the reality of my life. Huge hugs from me! 🌸🎀🌸

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  5. Hi Amy 🙂 Thank you for letting me spend time in your woods. ❤ I love all of the photos! My favorite is the last one with the snow, the water, ice and reflection. I have heard it said that we end up in relationship with those who can help us grow. 🙂 Love and blessings for you! ❤ ❤ ❤

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    1. Then I suppose you heard correctly, Sarah. I was so blinded with “Love” when first hubby and I met I did not see the issues … and if I did I brushed them off. Now years later, I can say with all truthfulness I have grown immensely in both wisdom and grace, all because of my marriage. SO happy you enjoyed these images … Much Love to you this day! 💞

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    1. YellowCable, you are very very welcome. I in turn thank you for complimenting me on my photography and matching the images to the words. That means a lot to me and encourages me to continue what I am doing. May you have a wonderful and peaceful evening. 💖🌸💖

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    1. I don’t consider what transpires in these conversations as arguments, Alexander. I don’t like that word. Hubby uses it a lot. This is me pointing out to hubby what the truth really is as I will not be pulled into his “poor me I want attention” antics. His mother did this which I just refuse to continue. When we don’t have these head-on discussions, our life is good together. We’ve been married long enough! LOL 🤗

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