The ways of Love are many
complex yet simple
with each interpretation
upon which is built
a glowing matrix
a Tapestry of Treasure
of unimaginable delight
Photography/ “The Ways Of Love”/ February 2017©AmyRose
Photograph taken at Chestnut Ridge Park, NY
Hubby and I have come to a silent agreement about something. I’ve attempted the verbal approach asking hubby to do something my way to which he actually agrees with me. I said to myself, “Finally that man gets it!” but as soon as I think he is going along with what I asked, I see him doing something his way again. So, I’ve stopped asking. Yet whenever I see that something not my way, I change it back to my way.
Let me explain. We have a hall that I would classify as “dead space” meaning there are no windows so the only source of ventilation is the door leading to the garage and the heating/air conditioning vent in our half lav. When the temps are cold that side door is not often open. So the only way the air is exchanged in this small hall is through the vent in the half lav. Four kitty litter pans are in this small hall, so in my opinion, ventilation is a must back there.
Hubby likes this vent closed because as he states it gets too hot/cold in there (which it does) when the door is closed as he sits on the throne. So he closes the vent. I come along and in using the throne notice the vent is closed so I open it just a wee bit hoping this time around hubby won’t notice and darn it just leave it be!
He does notice that I opened it a wee bit. And without saying anything he again closes this vent. It doesn’t get opened a wee bit until I come along when I notice it is closed. Oh the ways of Love … It’s not easy living with someone as long as I have who is vastly different then I am. So I quietly insist on my way and hubby quietly insists on his way. So it is. One would think since I am the one who cleans this house he would say, “Honey, I know how hard you work to keep this house clean. We’ll do it your way and leave this vent open a wee bit.” This woman is not holding her breath for that to happen! LOL
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